Sunday, January 2, 2011
just go away
So lately Ive been having this feeling that wont go away.. and every single day it gets a little bit stronger. Its a feeling that I almost cant explain.. or maybe I can, but I just don't understand it i guess. Anyway, I want a companion.. like you know, someone to chill with, laugh with, go out and have a good time.. but I want sparks with it, I wanna feel like "maybe this will lead to something more, maybe I can stop dating around now.. maybe, this is it".... but lately, no one that I wanna feel this way about seems to wanna feel the same about me, why is that?....I feel like, maybe, Im looking in the wrong places, at the wrong people or maybe it just wont happen, whatever it is I don't like it and i wish this feeling would just go away. Whats happening to me?... ugh... mushy stuff(feelings) sucks... anyway it's now 1am and i have to work soon so I guess I'll attempt to sleep now.... Comments anyone?
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It almost seems to be a pattern, when you aren't looking for someone, opportunities always show themselves, and when you are looking, there's nothing.
ReplyDeleteOnly thing I can think of is to be patient, good things come to those who wait. Even if while you are waiting it seems to take forever.
As soon as you are happy with yourself, and confident on being alone, that is a contagious feeling, and will only draw people in. It is important to remember that when you do find someone, do not rush it!! People make the mistake that they can just jump right into a relationship. With our further developing technology, this has become an issue plaguing relationships that otherwise could have been successful. It takes AT LEAST 6 months just to get to know a person, longer to develop a nurturing and happy relationship. Take one day at a time, life is too short to worry.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with anonymous. Having a companion will not be the source of true happiness. Once you learn to truly be at peace and happy with yourself as an individual and be joyful in all things, you will have such positive energy that will be infectious and attract the right kind of companion. It is my oppinion that people are going about the search in the wrong way. You should not want to be with someone as a means to "complete you," who wants to be with a half a person. What you want is to find someone who will be a complement to you. So my advice is to be the best happy person you can be, always think and be positive and you will find the mate you truly deserve. Best of luck to you
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