Thursday, February 3, 2011

happy transformation

 I just want to take this time to apologize for my lack of posts. I've been juggling two jobs and about 70 hours of work a week... I thought I could keep it up but I just simply am NOT cut out for this... Ive got to decide what Im going to do. Anyway, just an update on the things that I've blogged about most recently. #1 Mr. No Sparks and I have not been on a date since I made the post about him an don, he hasn't read the blog. I just simply declined his last attempts to go out in a nice, FRIENDLY way. So He's got the message that were are going to stay in the friend zone and boy am I glad to have that taken care of. #2 Mr. Hard To Convince is still living up to his name. Its been cool with him but he's been keeping it on the friend tip. We flirt a little, ok maybe I flirt a little, but all is cool and good with him. And between you and me, I think that there will be a break in his hard front in the near future. #3 My First boyfriend... well we've been spending a little time together talking and becoming friends again. Learning each other and its been really nice. He's even been building a small friendship with my sister, who was not a very big fan of his when we were dating. Btw, we kissed and neither one of us stopped it or even tried to for that matter. It was totally unexpected, but it happened and well, I'm not sorry it did. What will come out of it? I don't know but Im not aiming for anything to happen nor will I push anything away should something blossom out of it. All I know is that Im very happy to see the transformation that has taken place in his life. He's a brand new man and I can see us being friends for a very long time. #4 Little Boy Blue. I am happy to tell you that shortly after I made the post about him, he called his mother, his brother and his sisters. It had been over six months since they had even heard his voice so you can imagine how they all felt. He expressed how much he wanted to be home and that he would gladly testify in front of a judge. He now keeps in regular contact, phone calls a few times a week. I know that a phone call may not mean much to some, but in this case it means the world.... And that's it for my updates. I'll be writing again in a few days. Comments anyone?

Ta ta for now,
~ Arnesia Newsome